If you are in the dating market and are looking for that special guy and want to get him forever, it is all a matter of being the woman men adore.  So many women make this effort in completely the wrong way and the cycle of losing decent guys just goes on and on.  Is there a secret you should know about?  Perhaps!

Our society’s love of the “wafer thin model” look has created pretty unrealistic expectations of the ideal woman.  And, it goes the other way too in terms of what a ‘man’ should be.  So, the first thing that has to be done is to render a change of thinking.

Historically, there has been a sweeping generalization that the only thing men want is sex.  Of course, women have been conditioned to think that if she provides enough sexual intimacy, she can get him forever.

Make no mistake men have forever loved sex, but so do women.  In fact, most women’s sex drive is as strong as men’s sex drive, but due to our conditioning men chase it whilst women are encouraged to be a ‘nice girl’ and remain chaste prior to marriage.  So, the result is frustrated, sex deprived women and guys that are on a conquest to get their numbers up.

A real connection is what men are looking for.  Don’t get me wrong, men want sex (and their quantitative need is probably somewhat in line with yours), but that is not all. We also want something real.  If you can balance the two (connection & sex), you will be the woman men adore and the next good one will be around forever.

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Asian women are getting more popular these days and are today, one of the most preferred options, as far as ideal mates by Western men. But what is it that makes them so favored over others? The following article tries to figure it out.

The Plainness and Simplicity

One of the most amazing traits of an Asian woman is her simplicity and her plainness. They are minimal in nature, and although they may be ostentatious at times, yet they realize and will easily distinguish when and where to dress up accordingly. They do not usually initiate and would definitely wait for a man to make the first move. What makes them so special is that they value courtship all the more. Consequently they are able to get hold of the hearts of a lot many men simply for being what they are – simple, classic and yet elegant.

The Generosity of Spirit

Women of Asia are generous souls and carry a big heart. This character trait is not limited only to material things. Generosity in spirit is lot above than what money can buy and this feature displays understanding and benevolence in terms of offering quality time, endurance and love for their men. As it is, generosity in spirit could help in solving practically a large portion of misunderstandings and issues in couples. Asian women rate morals and values highly and this makes them have an edge over others.

The Inherent Respect

Women from Asia are usually very respectful of others, and they give due respect to elders, their in-laws most importantly to their husbands. Mutual respect is a very important aspect in any relationship and the values which have been instilled in these ladies, make them all the more attractive to men.

The Hardworking Chic

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Generally speaking, women all over the world work harder on their marriages than their husbands do. They would be the first one to notice that something’s wrong in the marriage, they would be the first one to seek counseling and not surprisingly, they would, more often than not, be the one to file for divorce.

Oftentimes, when asked what causes their dissatisfaction with their marriage, women are quick to say that “my husband just doesn’t understand my needs”.Even after many years of marriage, it is not strange to hear women say that their husbands are totally clueless with what can really make them happy.

Sometimes, men would feel that their wives have unrealistic demands and they just find it so exhausting to constantly be trying to please their wives.The role of husbands today has become more complicated than it was maybe 20 or 30 years ago – the husband doesn’t just have to be a good provider, he has to be there for soccer games, for parent conferences; he has to be the ultimate sexual partner for his wife and the ideal leader of the clan.

It is not surprising then that men end up disappointed with themselves also for failing to meet their wives’ expectations, which sometimes are just too much for them to handle.Many men, faced with criticisms from their wives, would react the opposite way.They would just stop trying to fulfill their wives’ demands and even accept it as a reality that women are born to complain, and it is just best to ignore them.

When this happens in a marriage, when the husband would often ignore what his wife is trying to tell him, the wife would start feeling that her husband is neglecting her.She would start to feel that her husband is not … Read More