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For Women: Knowing When to Say “No”

There are many of us, the women who are vulnerable and give in to satisfy other people. But that shouldn’t be the case. All you need is a little control over yourself and learn the power of “No”. So under which situations do you say a “No”? Read on to find out.

Here are a few scenarios :

1) Say, you are going on a train. A lady comes and sits face to face in front of you but your gut instinct says you don’t like this lady. After a while, she asks for your phone number. Find some excuse to avoid giving her your number. Since your feelings about her are negative, it is possible she is involved in drug business or women trafficking. Avoid her at all costs and if possible, change your seat on the train.

2) Your husband brings a man to your home for lunch. Your husband seems to have found a good friend in him. At lunch while holding conversations, you have ill feelings towards the man. You don’t like the man, the way he talks, his manners, his get up and so on. You come to know your husband is partnering with him in his business. You feel agitated. After the man leaves, hint to your husband your opinion about the man and warn him against partnering with him. Tell him he could ruin everything in his business. That would lead your husband to think and eventually to negate the partnership.

3) Your husband is on a trip. But you don’t feel that much lonely because you are intimate with your lady neighbor and her daughters. All of a sudden a man comes to visit their home and starts to take interest in you. You have no interest in this man nor do you have plans to pursue any relationships with him. After he flirts and makes the first move towards you, be strong and say a big “No” to his offer. You don’t need this kind of man to complicate your life. Your husband will be back soon and you will be … Read More

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Woman Know Thy Self Part

According to the bible in the book of Genesis chapter 2, the woman was specially made. Know yourself as a woman and know your purpose in your own life and in the life of your husband.

After God had created the whole earth and everything in it thereof, including the animals he then created Adam, whom he tried to find a help fit for but found non amongst the animals and so he realised that there was a need to create another being that looked more like Adam hence the creation of Eve. Adam saw her when he arose from his deep sleep and called her WOMAN which means made from the inside part of man.

Woman do you realise that before you were created, God had to make Adam sleep deeply so he could surgically operate on him in order to create you perfectly and uniquely? The woman is not and will never be a second class citizen or an after thought by God in creation contrary to popular opinion. Woman! How do you see your husband? How do you treat him? How do you relate with him? How do you present yourself to him? How do you manage the affairs of the home?

As a woman you are expected to act like the holy ghost towards your husband. Be that still small voice he hears when he’s about to do anything whether good or bad. Be just like the holy ghost is to a believer. You were created to fill that gap where the rib was removed. If you are not fitting right then you are not the correct rib that was removed from that man.

First and foremost, man was created after the image of God and so he likes to be worshipped, so worship him, adore him like the king he is to you.

As a woman, you were created with extraordinary strength. That is why a woman can come back from work, enters the kitchen, prepares the meal for the house hold to eat, wash clothes etc and till be the first person to wake … Read More

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Women’s Beauty Is An Indescribable Subject

How do you measure a women’s beauty? By her character, by her profession, by her goals or by her looks? Each has its significance and every element is taken into consideration. It is the case with men too. They are judged or witnessed by their breeding, work and their character. Beauty is something that comes from within your body. It is connected with the soul that God has formed inside us Some enhancers from outside can magnify them but the real thing remains inside and only a special soul can ooze that out and spread it in the world.

Some radiate happiness in their smiles. Their smile is so beautiful that eases the upset person and feels elated and relaxed. Their aura is so magnificent and soothing that it calms the burning soul and sends peace within. We make such friends for lifetime and in our fields, these working angels help in our difficulties. We have our parents, our birth givers whose aura portrays eternal peace and love.

Women love from their hearts. I am stressing on the feminine aspect here because they are often underrated. They wish you the best of everything. If you need a testimony, look at your mother, your wife, your daughter,or your female friend. Every time you cry, they sit beside you, offer silent prayers, and shed tears to give solace. “Everything will be all right. I will lay my life for you my dear. You do not have to worry.”After these, who would not think that he has still something left inside? Greatest of the great warriors have been on their knees when a female brave heart came to their aid.

Kind hearts offer the greatest friendship. They will never leave their other-half at the needy times and will not hesitate to destroy the ill will. So much has been written on this subject that we are getting short of words we just need to understand relationship with any human being should stand on the pillars of hope, sacrifice, faith and love.

It is not wrong to complain about distances. We are but a … Read More