I hope that you have never whistled at a girl or tried to gain her attention through a pickup line.

If you have you probably realize now that girls do not respond positively to these pathetic attempts to communicate with them. If you have not realized it and have gotten a positive response with this approach I suggest a visit to the doctor because you may be in need of some Penicillin.

During your actual conversation with a woman is when she will decide if you are a creep and mace you in the face or you are a cute guy and give you her phone number.

The best piece of advice I have been given on conversation is “You have to be interested in order to be interesting.” In other words you must take the initiative to acquire to know her, this is done by asking her questions.

There are two basic questions I suggest:

1. Where are you from?2. What do you do for work/school?

This will get a response for example: “I am from here, born and raised”

You should respond with a follow up question such as: “Really, so all your family lives here also?”

The purpose for these specific questions is they will almost always elicit a response that will give you more information for follow up questions.

Another example if you use question #2 and she responds with: “I work in sales”

You could then follow up with “What sort of sales?” or “How long have you been doing it?” or even simple questions such as “do you like it?”.

After you ask 2 or 3 follow up questions you should answer the questions you asked her, regardless of if she asks them of you or not. In other words after she … Read More

Dating can be exciting and refreshing for most men. It can add to your life a lot and even let you find the one woman to share your life with. But there are some mistakes you should be aware of and avoid like the plague when dating a woman.

Here are five of them to avoid at any cost.

I’ve spent many years of my life testing and learning until I could find the problems that my dating life was facing. This came to me as no surprise when I found out that most men had the same problems and issues when it comes to dating. These mistakes are universal and all men I know have fallen into one of them don’t get frustrated if you’ve ever made one, all of us did in some way or another.

Mistake number one: impatience.

This is a difficult one to spot, most men don’t know that they have this attitude, yet it’s so screaming to women. It’s the attitude of “I want it and I want it now”. You’ve got her phone number and the first thing you do when you get home is stare at it as a prize and then you find yourself calling her number, she will be friendly with you, but that’s all she will be. You have to be patient with women.

I’ve read a great compression between men and women:

Men are like gasoline, it burns fast and last few moments, women are like charcoal, it burns slow and lost for a long time. Use this analogy with women, don’t get too “gasoline” with them, give them time and they will appreciate it by giving you warmth and longtime fulfillment.

Mistake number two is: credibility.

Men will fall often for this too. Somehow men … Read More