How Important Is Having a Unique Personal Style?

How Important Is Having a Unique Personal Style?

It’s not a lie, first impression really does matter. First impression affects people’s long term judgment towards us deeply. A well dressed man is more likely to be admitted to a company compared to a shady individual that doesn’t shave when they’re applying for a job, we all know this fact.

But what is rarely overlooked is not the “well dressed” part, but “well developed” part. Confused? At first, me too. A friend who is older and much wiser than I once mentioned something that got me to think. People get attracted to individuals that are different. This is also something that actor Neil Patrick Harris emphasizes. At first I thought to myself, how different should I be to be able to attract people? She gave me the answer, “You have to be unique, be different, be you, in all possible way.”

Her answer sounded cliche, I’ve heard that a million times on the footer of my notebook pages, my coffee cups, and the quote is almost everywhere, so I overlooked it at first. Then I realized that people around me who are very sociable are unique. They’re unique in so many ways, the way they dress, talk, express their opinions, handle things, and so on. It’s like they have their own style.

We may have realized that sociable people always get the upper hand in life. The fact doesn’t serve to make the rest of us jealous, but it serves as a way for us to improve ourselves, to continue developing ourselves so that we can unlock better potential that we probably haven’t realized yet. You can ignore this, but it’s a fact that communicating with other people helps us find more about ourselves. When we communicate ideas and plans and suggestions, we begin to realize that we actually … Read More

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Some Notes For Men Looking For Russian Women For Marriage

Some Notes For Men Looking For Russian Women For Marriage

Once, eating at an upscale restaurant in a small town in the United States, I overheard a conversation between several people sitting next to me joking about an ordered bride and how low their demands were: “Here’s a glass of clean water for you, sweetheart. ” Bursts of laughter. At first, I was angry, because I had heard that Russian women seeking international marriage were labeled “mail order brides” in the United States and, being from Russia, I totally disagreed with the label. At the same time, there is nothing wrong with making fun of the concept of a woman “sent in a box” to her husband who lives in a richer country (especially to make people aware that this situation actually happened) but when this image is generalized for certain nationalities or for women from certain countries, then it is really not acceptable.

It is interesting to note that this expression is only known in Western countries. If you go to Russia, Belarus, Ukraine – in short, the countries of the former Soviet Union which are sometimes still commonly referred to as Russia – and ask if they have heard of “ordered brides,” you will be surprised to find that practically it is not anyone know that term. So before you bond with your beloved woman from Russia, make sure she understands what she might encounter in her new country. The following suggestions are based on concrete observations made in recent years.

Russian women are very popular among Western men because of their extraordinary beauty and caring nature. Their Slavic legacy generously gave them attractive looks and good skills in caring for the home and family. Population differences between men and women in Russia give women a good incentive to maintain their appearance and to get married abroad. However, … Read More

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How to Tell If Your Boyfriend Is a Player

How to Tell If Your Boyfriend Is a Player

Players can come in all shapes and sizes but usually have a few distinctive qualities that tell them apart. These qualities can all be seen, or found when looked for. It isn’t uncommon for women to date players without knowing what they are really like. They are usually very well dressed, well mannered, and have more lines then the bible ready to win you over in any argument, and they aren’t afraid to lie. If you’re even a little curious, or scared that you might be dating a player continue reading to check your man for some tell tale signs.

Denial of being a Player

One of the first things most players will say is that they aren’t one. They will usually tell you this is unjustified and they will act offended. They will act as if they are hurt by you even having to ask them. But deep down he will know that you are onto him and that his days playing you are numbered!

Smooth Talker

Does he have an answer for everything? If so, its due to the years of practice with other women. Do yourself a favour and don’t add yourself to the list. Most men won’t have an answer ready for everything, nor will a woman, it’s not natural. We aren’t built to completely understand someone from the get-go. Love takes time, patience, and actual work. Players don’t put in the work with you. They put it in with others and just repeat the same lines with all of their women. Your just unlucky enough to receive all the teachings they have learnt over their long career of misleading women.

Playing Hard to Get

Is he acting aloof most of the time? Players are normally only giving you the minimal amount of attention you desire … Read More

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Finding the Courage to Heed the Call of Your Heart

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the idea of calling. And right now it seems to me that women everywhere are being asked to “heed the call” in ways that they never have before. (Have you noticed this too?)

Finding the Courage to Heed the Call of Your Heart

Like most women, I felt the stirrings of my creative muse very early. And like most women, I learned very quickly to suppress it. I remember getting the message very clearly that living a creative life was for someone else, not me, and that it was simply not possible, practical or feasible to heed the call of my true heart’s desire without, well, starving to death (metaphorically and perhaps practically as well).

I’ve done a lot of healing work around that, and part of it was the realization that, to be fair, the kinds of resources that we have access to now simply didn’t exist back then. (The Internet was still mostly in the hands of academics and engineers, building a platform as a writer meant 200 signings per year, and coaching was still a faint blip in the mind of Thomas Leonard – oh wait, I’m dating myself, aren’t I?)

Now, things have changed. And so has the calling.

For the past several years, those of us whose spiritual roots run deep have been talking about “the shift” – the shift in consciousness, the falling away of the old structures that no longer work, of the emerging new paradigms and ways of being that we are all being asked to embody.

And you’ve probably heard by now what the Dali Lama said a year ago: that the world will be saved by the Western woman.

Back when I was a teenager, I felt trapped by a lack of possibility. How could it be possible to manifest my dream? How … Read More

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Terrific Hair Ideas for Women More than 40

When you reach age 40, adjustments can not be stopped from coming your way. There are plenty of items that steadily adjust like the little ones you might have raised beginning to move out and reside their own lives devoid of you and also you start off wondering what things to accomplish after they are no longer around the home.

Terrific Hair Ideas for Women More than 40

But life as we know it truly is very surprising. Not just that the life routines transform but you happen to be a living proof of your truth that alterations are inevitable. The body itself has undergone transformations. Although most alterations you’ve got had do not appear to be noticeable to some, inside you understand that they have happened or regularly taking place. Certainly one of these obvious transformations could be the modify to your hair.

As you reach that age, your head stops generating sturdy and smooth hair as it utilised to. You practical experience baldness as well as your crown is beginning to become breakable and unpleasant. It quickly gets broken and it makes you really feel so miserable. Be concerned not because there are actually nevertheless chances to bring back the old times. Right here are some wonderful hair recommendations which will take your confidence back to flaunt your locks once once more.

It is possible to stay lovely even when you are 40. Your hair any time you have been 20 can nonetheless be as pretty as your hair currently. You just need to provide yourself the ideal remedy to revive the healthful hair you’ve had.

• 1st on the list of wonderful hair tips is usually to prevent chemical compounds. This involves hair dying. Even though you badly will need to dye these grays, you might want to accept the fact that they result in … Read More

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