There are many places to meet
older women and it usually depends on what age you are looking for. If you are
looking for women in there 20s then all you have to do is look for hot spots
around the city where you live. Now clubs and parties are events that you would
find women around this age group at. You can really run into any age group
outside but you want to find targeted people at targeted places. This will
increase the chance you will have to run into the right age group. For example,
if I were a 39 year old man looking for a 28 year old women, I would go to a
club. Now usually in clubs you will find women from 18-40 at clubs so you can
always use this.
Now in order for you to
successfully meet them you need to understand a few things. You always have to
make a good impression and always have confidence. Here are the step that you
can use to help you meet older women.
Step 1. Maintain A Good Appearance
– Always make sure that you are in top shape and your appearance is looking
good. This will make her notice you without you saying anything.
Step 2. Always Act Mature – Always
act mature when you go out with older women because you do not know what is in
stored for you and they like mature men.
Step 3. Make Sure To Set Your
Sights High – Make sure you always choose a women you like. Never mind what she
has or what she does. Always pick a winner because there are so many you can be
a little shallow.
Step 4. Always Be Confident –
Confidence is something very common that most men have to have whether its to
approach a women or being successful at what you do.
Step 5. Smile And Be Happy –
Smiling and being happy helps your overall image when approaching women.
Step 6. Make A Connection – Make a
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I’ve been amazed by how negative,
whiney, complainy women get men and seemingly ruin them for positive women down
the road. Men don’t set out to date the negative women but so many women (and
men) date to “complete themselves” through someone else. Instead they
need to realize they are complete already and that happiness is an inside job.
Positive women know this. Do negative, cheating men make it difficult for
positive women to trust men? Absolutely, so we’re in the same boat but positive
women have a paddle because they use their gut feelings and personal boundaries
to their advantage. Here are some examples of what I’ve seen women do that make
men gun-shy or cynical when it comes time to date a positive woman.
Lie – negative women lie about who
they are what they like to do and what they are looking for in a man just to
get someone to date them.
I knew a woman who hated Chinese food
and when a man asked if she liked Chinese food, she said, “Do you like
Chinese food?” When he said he loved it, she said she loved it too. Did
she ever think that he might by upset when he finds out their first
conversation was based on a lie or does she expect him to fall in love with her
based on her other lies and ignore that first one? Geeze!
Whine – negative women whine to
their man about things that would be better hammered out with girl friends who
have the same communication style and understand.
When a woman comes home and
complains about a catty woman at work, a man wants to “fix it.” When
he can’t, he gets frustrated and feels like he can’t please her. If you are a
whiney woman, dump on your negative, whiney female friends. If you are a positive
woman, connect with a community of positive women who show you the catty woman
at work is insecure and attempting to get a power fix by bugging you. Positive
women know this stuff and it doesn’t bother … Read More