Be the Woman Men Adore and Get Him Forever

If you are in the dating market and are looking for that special guy and want to get him forever, it is all a matter of being the woman men adore.  So many women make this effort in completely the wrong way and the cycle of losing decent guys just goes on and on.  Is there a secret you should know about?  Perhaps!

Our society’s love of the “wafer thin model” look has created pretty unrealistic expectations of the ideal woman.  And, it goes the other way too in terms of what a ‘man’ should be.  So, the first thing that has to be done is to render a change of thinking.

Historically, there has been a sweeping generalization that the only thing men want is sex.  Of course, women have been conditioned to think that if she provides enough sexual intimacy, she can get him forever.

Make no mistake men have forever loved sex, but so do women.  In fact, most women’s sex drive is as strong as men’s sex drive, but due to our conditioning men chase it whilst women are encouraged to be a ‘nice girl’ and remain chaste prior to marriage.  So, the result is frustrated, sex deprived women and guys that are on a conquest to get their numbers up.

A real connection is what men are looking for.  Don’t get me wrong, men want sex (and their quantitative need is probably somewhat in line with yours), but that is not all. We …

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Speak With Girls – How you can Get Her Interested & Engaged

I hope that you have never whistled at a girl or tried to gain her attention through a pickup line.

If you have you probably realize now that girls do not respond positively to these pathetic attempts to communicate with them. If you have not realized it and have gotten a positive response with this approach I suggest a visit to the doctor because you may be in need of some Penicillin.

During your actual conversation with a woman is when she will decide if you are a creep and mace you in the face or you are a cute guy and give you her phone number.

The best piece of advice I have been given on conversation is “You have to be interested in order to be interesting.” In other words you must take the initiative to acquire to know her, this is done by asking her questions.

There are two basic questions I suggest:

1. Where are you from?2. What do you do for work/school?

This will get a response for example: “I am from here, born and raised”

You should respond with a follow up question such as: “Really, so all your family lives here also?”

The purpose for these specific questions is they will almost always elicit a response that will give you more information for follow up questions.

Another example if you use question #2 and she responds with: “I work in sales”

You could then follow up with “What sort of sales?” …

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What Made Asian Women Far More Different From Other Races

Asian women are getting more popular these days and are today, one of the most preferred options, as far as ideal mates by Western men. But what is it that makes them so favored over others? The following article tries to figure it out.

The Plainness and Simplicity

One of the most amazing traits of an Asian woman is her simplicity and her plainness. They are minimal in nature, and although they may be ostentatious at times, yet they realize and will easily distinguish when and where to dress up accordingly. They do not usually initiate and would definitely wait for a man to make the first move. What makes them so special is that they value courtship all the more. Consequently they are able to get hold of the hearts of a lot many men simply for being what they are – simple, classic and yet elegant.

The Generosity of Spirit

Women of Asia are generous souls and carry a big heart. This character trait is not limited only to material things. Generosity in spirit is lot above than what money can buy and this feature displays understanding and benevolence in terms of offering quality time, endurance and love for their men. As it is, generosity in spirit could help in solving practically a large portion of misunderstandings and issues in couples. Asian women rate morals and values highly and this makes them have an edge over others.

The Inherent Respect

Women from Asia are usually very …

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The Most Common Reason Why Women Leave

Generally speaking, women all over the world work harder on their marriages than their husbands do. They would be the first one to notice that something’s wrong in the marriage, they would be the first one to seek counseling and not surprisingly, they would, more often than not, be the one to file for divorce.

Oftentimes, when asked what causes their dissatisfaction with their marriage, women are quick to say that “my husband just doesn’t understand my needs”.Even after many years of marriage, it is not strange to hear women say that their husbands are totally clueless with what can really make them happy.

Sometimes, men would feel that their wives have unrealistic demands and they just find it so exhausting to constantly be trying to please their wives.The role of husbands today has become more complicated than it was maybe 20 or 30 years ago – the husband doesn’t just have to be a good provider, he has to be there for soccer games, for parent conferences; he has to be the ultimate sexual partner for his wife and the ideal leader of the clan.

It is not surprising then that men end up disappointed with themselves also for failing to meet their wives’ expectations, which sometimes are just too much for them to handle.Many men, faced with criticisms from their wives, would react the opposite way.They would just stop trying to fulfill their wives’ demands and even accept it as a reality that women are born …

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Four Deadly Mistakes to Avoid With Women

Dating can be exciting and refreshing for most men. It can add to your life a lot and even let you find the one woman to share your life with. But there are some mistakes you should be aware of and avoid like the plague when dating a woman.

Here are five of them to avoid at any cost.

I’ve spent many years of my life testing and learning until I could find the problems that my dating life was facing. This came to me as no surprise when I found out that most men had the same problems and issues when it comes to dating. These mistakes are universal and all men I know have fallen into one of them don’t get frustrated if you’ve ever made one, all of us did in some way or another.

Mistake number one: impatience.

This is a difficult one to spot, most men don’t know that they have this attitude, yet it’s so screaming to women. It’s the attitude of “I want it and I want it now”. You’ve got her phone number and the first thing you do when you get home is stare at it as a prize and then you find yourself calling her number, she will be friendly with you, but that’s all she will be. You have to be patient with women.

I’ve read a great compression between men and women:

Men are like gasoline, it burns fast and last few moments, women are like …

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