If you are in the
dating market and are looking for that special guy and want to get him forever,
it is all a matter of being the woman men adore. So many women make this effort in completely
the wrong way and the cycle of losing decent guys just goes on and on. Is there a secret you should know about? Perhaps!
Our society’s love of
the “wafer thin model” look has created pretty unrealistic
expectations of the ideal woman. And, it
goes the other way too in terms of what a ‘man’ should be. So, the first thing that has to be done is to
render a change of thinking.
has been a sweeping generalization that the only thing men want is sex. Of course, women have been conditioned to
think that if she provides enough sexual intimacy, she can get him forever.
Make no mistake men
have forever loved sex, but so do women.
In fact, most women’s sex drive is as strong as men’s sex drive, but due
to our conditioning men chase it whilst women are encouraged to be a ‘nice
girl’ and remain chaste prior to marriage.
So, the result is frustrated, sex deprived women and guys that are on a
conquest to get their numbers up.
A real connection is
what men are looking for. Don’t get me
wrong, men want sex (and their quantitative need is probably somewhat in line
with yours), but that is not all. We …
I hope that you have
never whistled at a girl or tried to gain her attention through a pickup line.
If you have you
probably realize now that girls do not respond positively to these pathetic
attempts to communicate with them. If you have not realized it and have gotten
a positive response with this approach I suggest a visit to the doctor because
you may be in need of some Penicillin.
During your actual
conversation with a woman is when she will decide if you are a creep and mace
you in the face or you are a cute guy and give you her phone number.
The best piece of
advice I have been given on conversation is “You have to be interested in
order to be interesting.” In other words you must take the initiative to
acquire to know her, this is done by asking her questions.
There are two basic questions I
1. Where are you
from?2. What do you do for work/school?
This will get a
response for example: “I am from here, born and raised”
You should respond
with a follow up question such as: “Really, so all your family lives here
The purpose for these
specific questions is they will almost always elicit a response that will give
you more information for follow up questions.
Another example if you
use question #2 and she responds with: “I work in sales”
You could then follow
up with “What sort of sales?” …
Asian women are
getting more popular these days and are today, one of the most preferred
options, as far as ideal mates by Western men. But what is it that makes them
so favored over others? The following article tries to figure it out.
The Plainness and Simplicity
One of the most
amazing traits of an Asian woman is her simplicity and her plainness. They are
minimal in nature, and although they may be ostentatious at times, yet they
realize and will easily distinguish when and where to dress up accordingly.
They do not usually initiate and would definitely wait for a man to make the
first move. What makes them so special is that they value courtship all the
more. Consequently they are able to get hold of the hearts of a lot many men
simply for being what they are – simple, classic and yet elegant.
The Generosity of Spirit
Women of Asia are
generous souls and carry a big heart. This character trait is not limited only
to material things. Generosity in spirit is lot above than what money can buy
and this feature displays understanding and benevolence in terms of offering
quality time, endurance and love for their men. As it is, generosity in spirit
could help in solving practically a large portion of misunderstandings and
issues in couples. Asian women rate morals and values highly and this makes
them have an edge over others.
The Inherent Respect
Women from Asia are
usually very …
Generally speaking, women all over the world work harder on their marriages than their husbands do. They would be the first one to notice that something’s wrong in the marriage, they would be the first one to seek counseling and not surprisingly, they would, more often than not, be the one to file for divorce.
Oftentimes, when asked
what causes their dissatisfaction with their marriage, women are quick to say
that “my husband just doesn’t understand my needs”.Even after many
years of marriage, it is not strange to hear women say that their husbands are
totally clueless with what can really make them happy.
Sometimes, men would
feel that their wives have unrealistic demands and they just find it so
exhausting to constantly be trying to please their wives.The role of husbands
today has become more complicated than it was maybe 20 or 30 years ago – the
husband doesn’t just have to be a good provider, he has to be there for soccer
games, for parent conferences; he has to be the ultimate sexual partner for his
wife and the ideal leader of the clan.
It is not surprising
then that men end up disappointed with themselves also for failing to meet
their wives’ expectations, which sometimes are just too much for them to
handle.Many men, faced with criticisms from their wives, would react the
opposite way.They would just stop trying to fulfill their wives’ demands and
even accept it as a reality that women are born …
Dating can be exciting
and refreshing for most men. It can add to your life a lot and even let you
find the one woman to share your life with. But there are some mistakes you
should be aware of and avoid like the plague when dating a woman.
Here are five of them to avoid at any
I’ve spent many years
of my life testing and learning until I could find the problems that my dating
life was facing. This came to me as no surprise when I found out that most men
had the same problems and issues when it comes to dating. These mistakes are
universal and all men I know have fallen into one of them don’t get frustrated
if you’ve ever made one, all of us did in some way or another.
Mistake number one: impatience.
This is a difficult
one to spot, most men don’t know that they have this attitude, yet it’s so
screaming to women. It’s the attitude of “I want it and I want it
now”. You’ve got her phone number and the first thing you do when you get
home is stare at it as a prize and then you find yourself calling her number,
she will be friendly with you, but that’s all she will be. You have to be
patient with women.
I’ve read a great compression between
men and women:
Men are like gasoline,
it burns fast and last few moments, women are like …