Five Biggest Mistakes That Women Make Around Men! This Screws You Up Big Time!

Did you know that about 97% of women screw up big time in their relationships by committing some very common mistakes? These few mistakes are the reasons most of the relationships fall apart. If you find that your man isn’t committing to you and isn’t taking you seriously, the reason could be because you are making these mistakes.

If you want to have a successful fulfilling long term relationship with a man you like and respect (a perfect man), you need to know what these mistakes are and avoid them at all costs. It will definitely help you in having a successful and a better relationship from now on.

Here are the biggest relationship mistakes women make around men that screws their relationship…

Acting needy – Just because he is your boyfriend, it doesn’t mean that he has to spend time with you all the time. If you expect him to spend time with you all the time, it shows that you are desperate and needy. Neediness kills of the attraction he has for you. It is creepy. This will make him leave the relationship as fast as possible.

Being too nice – There are certain people who act extremely nice in order to get the approval of their partner. If you’re one of them, you might have what psychologists call “Passive controlling behavior”. You are actually trying to manipulate him by being nice to him all the time. This will make you look creepy in his eyes and this is one of the reasons why relationships fail.

Nagging him – This is something almost all women do. Do you know what men feel when they are nagged by women? During these moments, men want to set them on fire. Nagging causes irritation to men. This makes men completely annoyed and it turns them off too soon. Make sure that you don’t nag him at any cost.

Talking about commitment – Talking about commitment early on in the relationship is one of the worst things you can do. It will turn a man off immediately and will make … Read More

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Pick Up Lines To Get Girls – 2 Great Role Plays

This isn’t actually a ‘line,’ it’s a role play scenario. Role playing works much better than pickup lines to get girls, and after you try this one yourself, you’ll understand why. This one is called Stripper Names.

It goes like this:

‘You know, I was talking to my dad today and he told me something really messed up. He said that when my mom was pregnant, they thought that I was going to be a girl and if I was a girl they were going to name me Iris. Isn’t that messed up? I mean, Iris is such a stripper name.’

Let her comment on that and then say:

‘What would your stripper name be? It’s like the name of the street where you grew up and your first pet. I have a really good one but in order to get the full impact of it, I need to step away. When I come back, ask me what my name is.’

Then, you do a little turn around and she asks you, ‘Okay, what’s your name?’ Mine is Bedford Watson, but figure yours out yourself and tell her. This is a really fun role play and you can use it as call back humor for the rest of the encounter.

Here’s another good one. It’s called Romantic Date. This is what you say:

‘You know what I’m going to do with you? I’m going to take you on a romantic date. I’ll take you to the Red Lobster on Interstate 40, I know the metered. We’ll get the best table right up front and you can get anything on the menu, even the five different types of shrimp. And don’t forget all the free bread. We’ll steal some and then go to the park and walk through it holding hands. Then, we’ll let red balloons go, it’ll be so romantic. Next, we’ll go to the beach and we’ll write our names in the sand. It’ll be so romantic and I’ll leave you there.’

That’s a great one because the whole Red Lobster bit is hilarious mixed in with … Read More

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Be the Woman Men Adore and Get Him Forever

If you are in the dating market and are looking for that special guy and want to get him forever, it is all a matter of being the woman men adore.  So many women make this effort in completely the wrong way and the cycle of losing decent guys just goes on and on.  Is there a secret you should know about?  Perhaps!

Our society’s love of the “wafer thin model” look has created pretty unrealistic expectations of the ideal woman.  And, it goes the other way too in terms of what a ‘man’ should be.  So, the first thing that has to be done is to render a change of thinking.

Historically, there has been a sweeping generalization that the only thing men want is sex.  Of course, women have been conditioned to think that if she provides enough sexual intimacy, she can get him forever.

Make no mistake men have forever loved sex, but so do women.  In fact, most women’s sex drive is as strong as men’s sex drive, but due to our conditioning men chase it whilst women are encouraged to be a ‘nice girl’ and remain chaste prior to marriage.  So, the result is frustrated, sex deprived women and guys that are on a conquest to get their numbers up.

A real connection is what men are looking for.  Don’t get me wrong, men want sex (and their quantitative need is probably somewhat in line with yours), but that is not all. We also want something real.  If you can balance the two (connection & sex), you will be the woman men adore and the next good one will be around forever.

Humans need to have a sense of connection with other humans.  If you first base your relationship on this simple premise, life will be good.

Remember, you have to love yourself before anyone can truly love you.  Don’t devote so much energy to him, that you deprive yourself.  Although men love this early on (it is of course flattering), they’ll tire of it in the long run.

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Speak With Girls – How you can Get Her Interested & Engaged

I hope that you have never whistled at a girl or tried to gain her attention through a pickup line.

If you have you probably realize now that girls do not respond positively to these pathetic attempts to communicate with them. If you have not realized it and have gotten a positive response with this approach I suggest a visit to the doctor because you may be in need of some Penicillin.

During your actual conversation with a woman is when she will decide if you are a creep and mace you in the face or you are a cute guy and give you her phone number.

The best piece of advice I have been given on conversation is “You have to be interested in order to be interesting.” In other words you must take the initiative to acquire to know her, this is done by asking her questions.

There are two basic questions I suggest:

1. Where are you from?2. What do you do for work/school?

This will get a response for example: “I am from here, born and raised”

You should respond with a follow up question such as: “Really, so all your family lives here also?”

The purpose for these specific questions is they will almost always elicit a response that will give you more information for follow up questions.

Another example if you use question #2 and she responds with: “I work in sales”

You could then follow up with “What sort of sales?” or “How long have you been doing it?” or even simple questions such as “do you like it?”.

After you ask 2 or 3 follow up questions you should answer the questions you asked her, regardless of if she asks them of you or not. In other words after she told you where she was from, and how long she lived there, … you would respond with telling her where you are from and how long you have lived there.

By answering your own questions you accomplish two large obstacles.

1. She does not feel like she is being interviewed2. … Read More

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Top Six Tips on How to Attract Women

In life there comes a time when a real man will feel lonely. With this there is need to get the woman of your dreams. When one is in this situation, they have to hit the road and employ different tactics on how to attract women. Some men will fail to attract a woman not because they are ugly or even not shy, but the method they use to attract that girl. It becomes very easy to win any lady if one understands the best ways to attract. This can be done by employing different tactics that must be combined. Here are some tips to try.

Confidence

One way on how to attract women is being confident and knowing what you want and what you are doing. Have the personality and character that is full of confidence. For any man who is not confident, one must make an improvement to their self- esteem and get to trust on oneself. This is the top tip for everyone who wants to attract any woman. Developing confidence when one is alone will reflect on your colors and who you are. Men who can reassure themselves will get attraction from women.

Grooming

Grooming does not mean buying the most expensive clothes, perfumes and other expensive stuffs. Just use a simple clean haircut that is attractive. Use appealing cologne that you can afford. Ensure you are clean like having clean fingernails that are attractive. Clean clothes are all that matters even if they are cheap.

Get interest in many things

On how to attract women, show some-interest in different things.  Don’t just talk about ordinary things like job and movies. This will lead to boredom on the part of women. Develop interest in what the woman likes. For example if she loves swimming you can go together, play tennis together, visit museums and help in developing their hobbies.

Your company matters

When answering the question on how to attract women, a man should look carefully at their companions. Remember the lady will make judgments on the company you are keeping. Men who keep … Read More

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